Meaning
To accept situations as they happen, relax, and adapt to the prevailing circumstances without attempting to change or control them.
It implies an easygoing, flexible attitude where a person chooses not to fight against the current of events, decisions, or popular opinion.
Origin
The phrase is a natural aquatic metaphor derived from fluid dynamics and navigation, where moving with the current of a river or sea requires zero physical energy compared to swimming upstream. While the concept exists across many ancient cultures and philosophies (such as Stoicism and Taoism), the exact informal idiom go with the flow gained massive popularity in American English during the mid-20th century, particularly within the 1960s counterculture movement, which emphasized relaxation, acceptance, and non-resistance.
Examples
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Instead of making strict plans for the weekend, let us just go with the flow.
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I was nervous about the flight delay, but I decided to go with the flow and read a book.
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When traveling in a foreign country, it is best to go with the flow and adapt to local customs.
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: Where are we going for dinner tonight?
B: I do not mind at all, I am happy to go with the flow.
Frequently asked questions
What does 'Go with the flow' mean?
To accept situations as they happen, relax, and adapt to the prevailing circumstances without attempting to change or control them.
It implies an easygoing, flexible attitude where a person chooses not to fight against the current of events, decisions, or popular opinion.