Meaning
To act contrary to what is usual, expected or natural to someone’s character. Can refer to resisting convention or doing something that feels personally uncomfortable.
Origin
The grain is the natural direction of fibers in wood or other material. Working against that direction is harder and can produce a rough result; this physical experience became a metaphor for resistance to established tendencies.
Examples
It goes against the grain for me to take credit for someone else’s work.
Her decision to stay small goes against the grain in an industry obsessed with growth.
He’s never been afraid to go against the grain.
Frequently asked questions
What does 'Go against the grain' mean?
To act contrary to what is usual, expected or natural to someone’s character. Can refer to resisting convention or doing something that feels personally uncomfortable.
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Related idioms
- Make a mountain out of a molehill
- Be caught between a rock and a hard place
- Be skating on thin ice
- Throw a wrench into something